The Ultimate Gift-Giving Etiquette Guide
, by MYUNIGIFT CORP., 3 min reading time
But getting the perfect gift is not always easy. You may not know the person well, or may feel like the recipient already has everything they’d ever want. If you’re struggling to figure out exactly what to get them, you’ve come to the right place! We’re sharing gift-giving etiquette tips and suggestions on how to be a better gifter, so you can find something they’ll love.
9 Gift Giving Etiquette Questions Answered
There are a lot of questions when it comes to gifting. We’ve answered some of the most common questions, so you can rest assured that you won’t commit a gifting faux pas.
If someone gives me a gift, does that mean I have to give one back?
A gift should never be given with the intent of getting one back, and you shouldn’t feel like reciprocation has to be matched dollar for dollar. Though it’s not required to get someone a gift if they get you one, you should at least show them appreciation through a heartfelt thank you note.
I forgot my friend’s birthday, should I still get a gift?
A gift is always well received! You should still give a gift if it’s a close friend or relative. Make sure to attach a note apologizing for the delay. If you missed their birthday celebration, treat them to a meal. It’s the perfect time to present the gift.
What attributes should I look for in a gift?
Based on our survey, we found that the majority of respondents (41%) look for gifts that are personalized. Practical gifts also topped the list with 19% valuing practicality, 16% valuing affordability and 10% valuing style. Ease of purchase and an experiential gift was voted least important.
Do we have to bring a gift for the host every time we are invited to a party?
If it’s a holiday party and a close friend, yes — especially if they have planned a meal. The gift can be a small token of appreciation like wine or sweets. For non-holiday, casual events, a gift is not necessary but a sweet gesture.
I gave a gift and the person did not react how I expected. Should I say something?
It’s best not to say anything. Everyone reacts differently when they are put on the spot. If you are not sure someone will like the gift you picked out, it’s a good idea to include a gift receipt.
If I didn’t attend a bridal shower or wedding, do I still have to send a gift?
You are not required to send a gift, but if you are a close friend of the bride or groom, you may want to send a gift even if you can’t attend. Most registries should have gifts at varying price points. If you don’t feel close enough to the couple to send a gift, sending congratulations will still be appreciated.
Is it tacky to ask for a wishlist?
No. If you’re buying a gift for a younger family member that you may not be as in touch with or with someone that is difficult to shop for, a wishlist will help point you in the right direction and ensure that you give a gift they’ll enjoy.
The kids in my extended family are getting older, and I’d like to stop getting each of them gifts. What’s the best way to bring it up?
As kids get older, they’ll understand that it’s difficult for adults to buy everyone in the family gifts, especially if you have a big family! Instead of cutting them off from gifts completely, you can find a solution that solves this problem for everyone like a family gift exchange. Other alternatives include buying smaller gifts or gifting treats like homemade cookies.
How long should I spend picking out a gift?
This will be different for everyone. There is no set time limit, however you want to make sure the process isn’t rushed. According to our survey, the majority of people (26%) spend a week choosing a gift.